If you feel like a well-informed gay man would be a prime source of secrets and tips to improve your sex life, look no further! Dan Anderson writes like he’s your best gay friend dishing with you about men and sex over a couple of lattes. He’s sassy, honest, funny, and incisive, and he’s got a lot of great advice. The overall premise of this book is to teach women that they can be more confident and assertive in their sexual relationships, summed up by his advice to “Just Grab It!” All the suggestions that follow are intended to give you the know-how to impress your paramour(s), and keep both of you satisfied. The book begins with some do’s and don’ts of personal grooming, tips for turning your bedroom into a “properly appointed” boudoir, and a whole chapter entitled “a “Penis Primer” going over the ups and downs of the family jewels. Also covers foreplay, hand jobs, blow jobs (including specific techniques for uncircumcised men), how to handle his testicles, and tips and positions for intercourse (including anal intercourse). He also touches on safer sex, using sex toys, and fun alternatives to intercourse.
Each chapter is relatively short, covering the basics, plus some more intermediate techniques and ideas. Interspersed with humorous stories about the authors’ gay friends and acquaintances to demonstrate their points. Aimed at single and dating women, this is a good choice if you want an entertaining and sassy book covering everything from how to attract men to what to do to wow them in bed.
By Dan Anderson and Maggie Berman. 2008 (originally 1997). 166 pages