This book offers a holistic approach to libido and desire.It focuses on women’s own experiences of sexuality, instead of looking at statistics and comparisons. The author, a sex therapist, examines what desire means to different women, as well as the reasons women say no to sex and "how to find your way back to "yes."" This book stands out because it includes an emphasis on the spiritual side of desire and sexuality. Those who are interested in bringing more meaning and/or a spiritual element to their experience of sexuality may like this book. Written in an empowering tone, this book also includes non-judgmental information about non-monogamy, lesbian and bisexual experiences, and being a survivor of rape or abuse. Highly recommended.