Written by a practicing dominatrix, Mistress Lorelei, this book tells you how to harness your feminine power and engage in safe and satisfying domination and submission play with your consenting partner. The author spells out her assumptions in the beginning of the book (that you are in a stable monogamous relationship and that both of you are healthy, consenting adults who have the same HIV status). If your relationship differs from this description, you’ll need to make some alterations to her suggestions (like incorporating the use of latex barriers).
Mistress Lorelei writes with an emphasis on safety and consent for everyone involves. She talks about the use of safewords and other precautions that should be taken before beginning a scene and gives tips for reaching compromises that will leave both the Domme and the Sub happy.
She also identifies five of the most common submission fantasies that men have and gives hints for finding out which one(s) your partner might prefer. Each of the last five chapters of the book is dedicated to a specific fantasy theme. Here you will learn which props and costumes you will need to create a scene, as well as get a general idea of plot points that you may want to work into your play.