Wow, this book is a gem. Subtitled: a guide to happy monogamy, positive polyamory, and optimistic open relationships. How many times have you thought to yourself that what you want in relationships just doesn't seem to fit "the pattern". How do you begin to decide for yourself what type of relationship structures you are best suited to, and how do you begin to make that happen? Designer Relationships takes you down this long path, and helps pose questions that help you decide for yourself where you might be, and where you might want to be. Very insightful.