Do you want to find a way to move beyond the communication and relationship patterns you and your partner have set over your time together? This book offers suggestions for how to let go of power struggles, how to balance each person’s need for closeness and separateness, and how to be yourself in your relationship. We particularly like the advice for how to fight fairly, how to craft agreements that you can keep, and how to communicate positively as a method for reducing the frequency of arguments. Promotes both self-assertiveness and stronger relationships.
This book works well for couples of all orientations and genders with its down-to-Earth approach and practical suggestions.