Better Sex in No Time: An Illustrated Guide for Busy Couples
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“You don’t have time for sex.” Many of us can relate to that sentence, but how many of us can probably rephrase that sentence to reveal what we really mean by that: “You aren’t making the time for sex, because, perhaps, if you were honest with yourself, you’ve lost the want or the desire that came so easily early in the relationship.” We love that this book is honest and real about the challenges modern day couples face, but doesn’t make this struggle heavier than it needs to be or anyone’s fault. Instead, it’s all about “little conscious daily effort...One sexy thought, one kind gesture, one passionate kiss, one hot date at a time.” From seduction and romance, flirting and foreplay, to getting it on, readers will gain a wealth of simple, easy to do tips for authentically amping up the heat with your honey. Examples are realistic,fun, and low fuss, like “make a date night jar,” or have a glass of wine poured and waiting. Plenty of fresh bedroom tips come later, but not before an emphasis on boosting the heart of the relationship with meaningful, respectful gestures. We also love that a chapter on masturbation is included--good lovin always starts with self-love, even in established, cohabitating couples.
This friendly, accessible book is a great guide you and your partner can use to make the most of that hour or even the few minutes you have for sexytimes. And, as the authors point out, making the most of that time will make you want more of it. The more you want it, the more naturally it will come to prioritize it. The language and photographs are heteronormative in focus, but the advice is very positive and could be valuable to all types of loving partnerships.