Description
This book addresses myths about anal play and strap-on sex and counters them with correct information. Blue also discusses how to talk to your partner about strap-on sex: how to explain why it’s appealing to you, how to bring it up if you don’t usually talk about sex, what to do if your partner’s reaction is negative, etc. Excellent job of covering both the physical and emotional aspects of strap-on play, the author explains how to choose the right harness, dildo(s), and lube, and describes ways you can have fun with strap-on play without penetration. There are also several erotic stories by Alison Tyler to inspire you and give you plenty of new ideas.
While the author is generally inclusive in her writing, emphasizing that ”strap-ons are for men, women, and trans-people of all genders and orientations,” most of the info in this book is geared towards heterosexual couples.