How To Choose

How to choose a DVD about positions

Published: Jun 23 2009
Dear Sex Counselor, I am looking for a DVD on Positions, but I notice you offer a lot of different options.  How do I choose? Instructional films on positions are excellent resources to learn new ways to broaden your sexual repertoire, help you spark conversations on what you like, as well as simply being visually and sensually arousing...

Empire Brand Size Chart

Published: Sep 10 2009
For bustiers, consider the bust and cup measurement. For garterbelts, consider the waist measurement.   Bust Cup Waist Small 32 A-B 26-28" Medium 34 A-B 28-30" Large 36...

Shame Brand Size Chart

Published: Sep 10 2009
Note: waist and hip measurements are in inches.   O/S (One Size) XL O/S (One Size) Small Medium Large Xtra Large 1X 2X 3X Waist 26-32" 32-38" 26.5" 28.5" 30" ...

Dreamgirl Brand Size Chart

Published: Sep 10 2009
For bustiers, consider the bust and cup measurements.  For other garments, consider the equivalent dress size.   Equivalent Dress Size Cup Bust Waist Hip Small 2-6 A-B 32-34" 24-26" 34-36" ...

How to Choose Condoms

Published: Feb 7 2009
Dr. Myrtle, How can I figure out which condom is best for my needs? We've put together a handy guide to give you as much information as possible about the variety of condoms we carry.  Download our condom comparison chart inside our Condoms & Barriers Brochure. You'll get exact information about the length, width, color,...

Lubricant Comparison Chart

Published: Feb 7 2009
Dr. Myrtle, Your descriptions of lubricants are helpful, but do you have a chart or anything so I can compare them side by side? We're so glad you asked! We've put together this handy lubricant comparison chart that gives you information about the consistency (thickness or thinness), ingredients, taste, moisturizing properties, and other...

Can you be green and enjoy your sex toys, too?

Published: Apr 13 2009
So you want to be more green. You want to lessen your impact on our planet and choose products that contribute to this goal. You've heard all about how to "go green" with your car, your home, your food choices...but now you're wondering, what about pleasure toys? How can you reduce your carbon footprint while pursuing pleasure? How do you find...

What are the differences between your Instructional Movies?

Published: Feb 25 2011
I am wondering how I can tell the difference between the different instructional movies you have for sale. Can you help? ___________________________________________________________________ We have divided our instructional films into several categories to help make your purchasing decisions easier. Instructional films with a more ...

How to Choose a Nipple Toy

Published: Mar 2 2009
Dear Sex Counselor, I really like it when my partner plays with my nipples, and I've been thinking of bringing a toy or two to the bedroom. But there are so many nipple toys on your website! Where should I start? Our nipple toys can be divided into two main categories – clamps and suction toys. We also have a variety of breast and nipple...

Condoms and Barriers

Published: Jul 22 2006
Download a free PDF version of this brochure Dear Dr. Myrtle, I want to protect myself, but it seems weird or geeky to whip out some latex. How can I make using condoms more fun? Condoms and other barriers (such as gloves and dams) allow people to explore their sexuality more safely. If you’ve decided to be sexual with someone else,...

How to choose a game

Published: Oct 7 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, My partner and I would like to get a sexy game to play together, but I'm not sure how to choose one. Can you help? Games are a great way to have fun with a partner while discovering or introducing new ideas to your erotic play. Here’s a guide to help you choose a sexy game or two to make your playtime more exciting. We...

How to choose anal toys & get started with anal play

Published: Oct 14 2008
Download a free PDF version of this brochure Dear Sex Counselor, My partner and I have beautiful sex together, and we are curious about exploring anal sex. I must say that every time my lover touches my anus, it is quite exciting. Do you have any suggestions? All of us have sensitive nerve endings around the anus and rectum that can produce...

Oils as Sexual Lubricants: pros & cons

Published: Jun 2 2006
Dear Dr. Myrtle, Can’t I use oil as a sexual lubricant? Maybe. Oils are lubricants, and some people use them as sexual lubricants without any problem whatsoever. As long as you know yourself, your needs, and the potential issues involved, you may be able to use oils sexually. But before you do, consider all of the facts. The Oily Debate ...

Books for Moms about Sex

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, Can you recommend any books that give moms or moms-to-be information about maintaining a healthy sex life, both during and after pregnancy? Maintaining a healthy sex life is important to many moms and moms-to-be. Pregnant women and women who have recently given birth often find themselves wondering what’s "healthy" or ...

Harness size chart

Published: Oct 14 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, There are so many harnesses ... how do I choose one that will fit me? In general, you should measure your hips or waist (wherever you want to wear the harness) and use that measurement to choose a harness that fits you. Our harnesses are sized as follows:   Hip Harnesses Hip or Waist...

Elegant Moments Brand Size Chart

Published: Apr 24 2008
For bustiers, consider the bust and cup measurements.  For garterbelts, consider the waist and hip measurements. For other garments, consider the equivalent dress size.   Bust Cup Waist Hips Equivalent Dress Size Small 32-34" A...

Intimate Attitudes/ Escante Brand Size Chart

Published: Oct 10 2008
For bustiers, consider the bust and cup measurements. For garterbelts, consider the waist and hip measurements. For other garments, consider the equivalent dress size.     Bust Cup Waist Hips Equivalent Dress Size 1X 39-42" D...

Bustier Size Chart

Published: Oct 8 2008
  How are your bustiers sized? Measure your bust around your rib cage under the breast. Bust Cup Size 32-34" A-B 36" B-C 38" (Shirley brand) B-C 38" (Intimate Attitudes brand) D-DD ...

Men's Clothing Size Chart

Published: Oct 10 2008
Note: sizing is based on waist measurement (in inches).   Brand One Size Small Medium Large X-Large Mary Green N/A 28-30" 32-34" 36-38" 40-42" Shirley & Shame 28-34" ...

What's good for body massage and safe to use as a lubricant?

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I like to give my partner whole-body massages, and they sometimes lead to intercourse. I know oils don’t make good sexual lubricants (and that they can make holes in condoms). Are there any products I can use for massage and for sexual intercourse? It’s a dilemma. We don’t recommend using massage oil on the genitals,...