Download PDF brochure version. Try as I might, I can’t seem to last as long as I’d like to. How can I prolong sexual penetration without coming? In books and movies, our culture glorifies the mad, passionate rush to intercourse as the ultimate sexual experience. Unfortunately, frenzied sexual experiences can sometimes be unsatisfying and difficult […]
Category: Function: Arousal, Engorgement & Orgasm
Using a Penis Pump
Penis pumps work to pull more blood into the penis than would normally be present during engorgement resulting from sexual arousal. The result is a slightly larger, firmer penis that is more sensitive to contact. This enlargement is not long-lived, and there is no evidence that a man can permanently enlarge his penis by repeated […]
Arousal & Tantric Sexuality
What is “Tantric sex”? Tantric Sexuality generally refers to a process of integration between Eastern spiritual mind focus and a physical sexual connection between lovers. “Mind-Body” connection is one way to think of it, but really that’s too simplistic. Tantra is as much about being aware of your own mind-body connection as it is about […]
When vibrators are the way you have your orgasms
Dear Sex Educator, I’ve read your Q&A about orgasms without vibrators and I’m wondering if you could suggest some other options. I have spent a number of hours today reading about female ejaculation and orgasms, both manually and electronically achieved. I found out that I “wet” during orgasm the first time I used a vibrator […]
More about orgasms with and without vibrator assistance
Dear Sex Educator, I have trouble orgasming unless I use my vibrator (plug in, medium size) and lately I’ve found that I can’t orgasm unless I am using it. Is it possible that I could have damaged the nerves in my clitoris somehow?? I am happily married, love to masturbate, have no problem telling my […]
What does self-pleasuring have to do with having orgasms with my partner?
I keep hearing about the importance of self-pleasure, but I’m not sure why I should. I’m only interested in sex with my partner. Statistically, people express higher levels of sexual happiness when they are able to persuade their own body to higher levels of sexual arousal. So the short answer to your question is that […]
Pornography and your sex life
Dear Sex Educator, My husband and I have been together for four years, and married for three. Until about one year ago I was extremely sexually aggressive and most always aroused. I masturbated frequently, at least two or three times per week, and could become aroused at the drop of a hat. All of a […]
How do erection rings work?
Dear Sex Educator, Are cock rings a hoax? No, cock (erection) rings are definitely not a hoax. Here’s how they work. Erections are caused by blood traveling into the penis through blood vessels deep in the core of the penis and becoming “trapped” there for a time, then returning back out of the penis on […]
Delayed Ejaculation
Lately, it’s been taking me a really long time to be able to ejaculate and have an orgasm. Why is this happening? There are a variety of reasons that men may be unable to orgasm and ejaculate, a condition known as delayed ejaculation (DE) or ejaculatory delay. DE is defined as the inability to orgasm […]
Do herbal supplements work?
Most supplements will not do anything to you, physically, to help you be aroused. The original Spanish Fly is actually toxic, and even in small quantities causes an intense urinary tract irritation that will lead to an infection in most people. That irritation is perceived as arousal, which is how it got that reputation. But […]