Download a free PDF version of this brochure Self-pleasure, also known as masturbation, specifically refers to touching yourself sexually in a way that feels good. There is no right way to masturbate, and as long as it doesn’t hurt, there’s no wrong way either. You can do it alone, with a friend, or as part […]
Category: Function: Arousal, Engorgement & Orgasm
Still Juicy: Maintaining Sexual Health through and beyond Menopause
Download a free PDF version of this brochure I’ve experienced several changes in my body since starting through menopause, and I’m worried that my sex life will suffer. Is there anything I can do on my own to maintain my sexy self? Yes, there is quite a bit a person can do to maintain her […]
Self Pleasuring for People with Vulvas and Vaginas
Download a free PDF version of this brochure Self pleasure, also known as masturbation, specifically refers to touching yourself sexually in a way that feels good. There is no one right way to masturbate, and as long as it doesn’t hurt, there’s certainly no wrong way. Pleasuring yourself, on your own terms, is a way […]
Male Multiple Orgasms
Yes, it’s true that men can learn to hold off ejaculating, and have multiple orgasms! The technique involves using breathing and acupressure to delay ejaculation, but still allows orgasm to happen. You’ll find step-by-step instructions in the book Multi-Orgasmic Man by Chia & Arava. Many of our customers have learned these techniques, and say it’s […]
I can’t quite get to an orgasm when I’m with my partner.
I can have an orgasm when I’m by myself, but I can’t have an orgasm with my partner. Why is this happening? The following post goes beyond purely technical issues that might be involved, such as what body parts you have and how you are using them. We’re going to look deeper into some issues […]
Self-pleasuring, but can’t have an orgasm
I am an 18-year-old woman and have been masturbating regularly since I was 14. I have been able to bring myself close to orgasm with fingers and then again with a vibrator, but I haven’t had an orgasm. I’ve tried using a massaging showerhead to stimulate myself, but nothing seems to work. Is there any […]
I used to have more, better orgasms…
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More, better orgasms
Dear Sex Educator, When my boyfriend and I are just playing, he can have multiple orgasms that can last for a while. I have a very hard time achieving an orgasm, and when I do it doesn’t last very long so I never really get to enjoy it. So I was wondering if there was […]
Anorgasmia and Anti-depressants
Why am I not having orgasms since I started taking antidepressants? I’m a lot happier since I started my antidepressant medication, but … it’s a weird thing … I can’t seem to have orgasms anymore. It’s not like I want to be depressed, but this isn’t a great trade-off. Any suggestions? It’s important to distinguish […]
Eager Ejaculation and what you can do
Download PDF brochure version. Try as I might, I can’t seem to last as long as I’d like to. How can I prolong sexual penetration without coming? In books and movies, our culture glorifies the mad, passionate rush to intercourse as the ultimate sexual experience. Unfortunately, frenzied sexual experiences can sometimes be unsatisfying and difficult […]