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Self Pleasuring for People with Penises and Prostates

Download a free PDF version of this brochure Self-pleasure, also known as masturbation, specifically refers to touching yourself sexually in a way that feels good.  There is no right way to masturbate, and as long as it doesn’t hurt, there’s no wrong way either.  You can do it alone, with a friend, or as part […]

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Arousal & Tantric Sexuality

What is “Tantric sex”? Tantric Sexuality generally refers to a process of integration between Eastern spiritual mind focus and a physical sexual connection between lovers. “Mind-Body” connection is one way to think of it, but really that’s too simplistic. Tantra is as much about being aware of your own mind-body connection as it is about […]

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When vibrators are the way you have your orgasms

Dear Sex Educator, I’ve read your Q&A about orgasms without vibrators and I’m wondering if you could suggest some other options. I have spent a number of hours today reading about female ejaculation and orgasms, both manually and electronically achieved. I found out that I “wet” during orgasm the first time I used a vibrator […]

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More about orgasms with and without vibrator assistance

Dear Sex Educator, I have trouble orgasming unless I use my vibrator (plug in, medium size) and lately I’ve found that I can’t orgasm unless I am using it. Is it possible that I could have damaged the nerves in my clitoris somehow?? I am happily married, love to masturbate, have no problem telling my […]

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What does self-pleasuring have to do with having orgasms with my partner?

I keep hearing about the importance of self-pleasure, but I’m not sure why I should. I’m only interested in sex with my partner. Statistically, people express higher levels of sexual happiness when they are able to persuade their own body to higher levels of sexual arousal. So the short answer to your question is that […]

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Still Juicy: Maintaining Sexual Health through and beyond Menopause

Download a free PDF version of this brochure I’ve experienced several changes in my body since starting through menopause, and I’m worried that my sex life will suffer. Is there anything I can do on my own to maintain my sexy self? Yes, there is quite a bit a person can do to maintain her […]

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Self Pleasuring for People with Vulvas and Vaginas

Download a free PDF version of this brochure Self pleasure, also known as masturbation, specifically refers to touching yourself sexually in a way that feels good. There is no one right way to masturbate, and as long as it doesn’t hurt, there’s certainly no wrong way. Pleasuring yourself, on your own terms, is a way […]

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Male Multiple Orgasms

Yes, it’s true that men can learn to hold off ejaculating, and have multiple orgasms! The technique involves using breathing and acupressure to delay ejaculation, but still allows orgasm to happen. You’ll find step-by-step instructions in the book Multi-Orgasmic Man by Chia & Arava. Many of our customers have learned these techniques, and say it’s […]

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I can’t quite get to an orgasm when I’m with my partner.

I can have an orgasm when I’m by myself, but I can’t have an orgasm with my partner. Why is this happening? The following post goes beyond purely technical issues that might be involved, such as what body parts you have and how you are using them. We’re going to look deeper into some issues […]