Dear Sex Educator, Can you give me more information on what kinds of toys might be useful when exploring female ejaculation? Please read the Intro to Female Ejaculation article before reading further, to get more basic information on G-spot and T-Zone stimulation and female ejaculation. That said, most toys are going to provide more intense […]
Category: Sex Tips, Tricks & Techniques
How to Safely Use Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps increase sensation in two main ways: Because they are clamped on, they cause continuous pressure signals to be sent to your brain. They also constrict and cut off some of the blood supply to the tip of your nipple. The decreased blood supply makes the nerve endings more sensitive to touch. It is […]
Oral sex lubricants
Dear Sex Educator, Do you have any suggestions for the best lubes to use during oral sex with men? Avoiding dry mouth at an inopportune moment has proven difficult. Yes, there are a few good choices for lubricants that can be used during oral sex with men. Some people prefer water-based lubricants for their mouth […]
My partner says I’m too wet
Dear Sex Educator, My partner tells me that I get too wet for him to feel enough sensation during intercourse. How can we resolve this issue? This is a problem for some men and women, particularly those who are used to quite a bit of friction during stimulation. Here are a couple of things you […]
Hesitant about cunnilingus
Dear Sex Educator, I’ve been slow at giving oral sex to women. Inhibitions? Taboos? I don’t know. I’m committed to pleasuring my lover that way. Any suggestions for helping me to overcome that? In addition to orally pleasuring my female partner, how do vibrators fit in? (pardon the pun)? Which do women find more pleasurable […]
Good Resources about Oral Sex, Cunnilingus & Fellatio
Dear Sex Counselor, Hi! I love to perform cunnilingus and enjoy all the variety encountered in the female anatomy while doing so. Trouble is, I don’t get to practice it often enough and need refreshers and updated information to keep my skills current. My question is, can you recommend any good books on the subject, […]