Pelvic floor exercise tools act as biofeedback tools and help you know if and when you are contracting your pelvic floow muscles correctly. Most of them sit very close to the muscles you’re going to be contracting (your pelvic floor muscles), and when you lift those muscles you can feel the tool “lift” up inside […]
Category: Sex Tips, Tricks & Techniques
Best intercourse positions for avoiding back pain
I am 61 years old and still sexually active with my partner who has some back problems. During intercourse he is usually on top but occasionally wants me to be on top. I try but it seems like it’s not a comfortable fit and I don’t have the flexibility in my spine. So that only […]
Rheumatoid Arthritis and Sexuality
Q: Dear Sex Educator, I am living with rheumatoid arthritis, and the pain and fatigue that I experience can make sexual intimacy difficult or impossible. Is there anything I can do to improve my sex life? __________________________________________________________________ Chronic pain and fatigue can make you feel like your sex life is over, but this does not […]
Pregnancy and Sex
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Self Pleasure How-to for People with Vulvas
Click here to download a pdf brochure about Self Pleasuring for People with Vulvas and Vaginas. We all have to start somewhere! I can tell you that I learned to masturbate after reading an excerpt from the book Our Bodies, Ourselves that described masturbation, the clitoris, and orgasm. I highly recommend the updated version of […]
Will I get addicted to using a vibrator?
We wonder whether this myth got started at the same time as the one about growing hair on your palms if you masturbated too much. A vibrator may allow you to have an orgasm more quickly than with manual stimulation, but it will not desensitize you to any kind of stimulation which typically leads you […]
How to clean your toys
Dear AWT Pleasure Specialists, What’s the best way to keep my toys clean? I’ve seen “toy cleaner” advertised – do I need to buy any special products to keep my toys clean? With good care and reasonable use, your toys should last for quite a while. To protect yourself and those you love, consider the […]
Condom Care Away From Home
Where’s the best place to store my condoms when I go on camping trips? My husband and I are going on our honeymoon outdoor summer camping trip, but I don’t know where to store our condoms! The backpacks will be in the hot sun, and the car will bake in a parking lot. Help! Very […]
Using double-ended dildos
Dear Sex Educator, My girlfriend and I have tried double dildos for mutual pleasure, and it just doesn’t work. The dildo we bought was not firm enough to stay in place and could not move well with thrusting. Is there anything on the market that can provide mutual vaginal penetration for women without falling out? […]
Why don’t you carry handcuffs?
Dear Sex Educator, My partner and I are looking to live out a naughty police officer fantasy, but we can’t seem to find any metal handcuffs on your website. You carry a lot of different restraints, but why no handcuffs? There are a few reasons why we don’t stock handcuffs or encourage their use. The […]