Does chocolate actually has an effect on sexual arousal? How does it work? Eat 4 ounces of 70% chocolate, and call me in the morning. Looking for a quick, easy boost for your sexual arousal? Eat dark chocolate, (“straight-up” without other toffee, caramel, sugar-dense junk on it), every day in several doses. Not only will […]
Category: Sexual Trauma
Abuse survivor with high libido
Dear Sex Counselor, I have a question about sexual abuse. I am a female, age 22, and when I was about 11 I was sexually abused by my mother’s boyfriend. Now, at the age of 22, I think I’m a sex addict – but NOT the sleeping around type. I love porno movies and dirty […]
What is appropriate gynecologist behavior?
Is it a normal procedure for a gynecologist to massage a woman’s clitoris (to orgasm) while performing a pelvic exam to see if the vagina lubricates normally? Absolutely not! In fact, such behavior should be reported to your state medical licensing board. This physician should be reprimanded at least, and possibly barred from practicing. That […]
Sex after Hysterectomy
I am 44 year old and had a hysterectomy because of a tumor. I was not sexually active prior to the surgery. I am now in a relationship that could be sexual, but I am nervous. Will the hysterectomy affect my performance? Should I continue to have pelvic exams if I don’t have my uterus, […]