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Category: Function: Arousal, Engorgement & Orgasm
More, better orgasms
Dear Sex Educator, When my boyfriend and I are just playing, he can have multiple orgasms that can last for a while. I have a very hard time achieving an orgasm, and when I do it doesn’t last very long so I never really get to enjoy it. So I was wondering if there was […]
Anorgasmia and Anti-depressants
Why am I not having orgasms since I started taking antidepressants? I’m a lot happier since I started my antidepressant medication, but … it’s a weird thing … I can’t seem to have orgasms anymore. It’s not like I want to be depressed, but this isn’t a great trade-off. Any suggestions? It’s important to distinguish […]
Eager Ejaculation and what you can do
Download PDF brochure version. Try as I might, I can’t seem to last as long as I’d like to. How can I prolong sexual penetration without coming? In books and movies, our culture glorifies the mad, passionate rush to intercourse as the ultimate sexual experience. Unfortunately, frenzied sexual experiences can sometimes be unsatisfying and difficult […]
Using a Penis Pump
Penis pumps work to pull more blood into the penis than would normally be present during engorgement resulting from sexual arousal. The result is a slightly larger, firmer penis that is more sensitive to contact. This enlargement is not long-lived, and there is no evidence that a man can permanently enlarge his penis by repeated […]
Arousal & Tantric Sexuality
What is “Tantric sex”? Tantric Sexuality generally refers to a process of integration between Eastern spiritual mind focus and a physical sexual connection between lovers. “Mind-Body” connection is one way to think of it, but really that’s too simplistic. Tantra is as much about being aware of your own mind-body connection as it is about […]
Pornography and your sex life
Dear Sex Educator, My husband and I have been together for four years, and married for three. Until about one year ago I was extremely sexually aggressive and most always aroused. I masturbated frequently, at least two or three times per week, and could become aroused at the drop of a hat. All of a […]
How do erection rings work?
Dear Sex Educator, Are cock rings a hoax? No, cock (erection) rings are definitely not a hoax. Here’s how they work. Erections are caused by blood traveling into the penis through blood vessels deep in the core of the penis and becoming “trapped” there for a time, then returning back out of the penis on […]
Delayed Ejaculation
Lately, it’s been taking me a really long time to be able to ejaculate and have an orgasm. Why is this happening? There are a variety of reasons that men may be unable to orgasm and ejaculate, a condition known as delayed ejaculation (DE) or ejaculatory delay. DE is defined as the inability to orgasm […]
Do herbal supplements work?
Most supplements will not do anything to you, physically, to help you be aroused. The original Spanish Fly is actually toxic, and even in small quantities causes an intense urinary tract irritation that will lead to an infection in most people. That irritation is perceived as arousal, which is how it got that reputation. But […]