Sex Tips, Tricks & Techniques

The Perfect Handjob

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, My boyfriend really wants me to bring him to orgasm with my hands. The problem is, I really don’t know what to do! Can you give me some pointers so that I can please him? Just as I got this question, the following was posted to one of the e-mail lists to which I subscribe. So here is some great information on how to...

Shaving Hints & Tips

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, Can you tell me more about how to shave my pubic hair safely and comfortably? I’m particularly fond of hair and fuzz, so I asked for some shaving tips from shaving experts. Here’s what one expert says: "I am a 23-year-old female and have been shaving completely for about a year now. The initial reason was for my...

About shaving

Published: Oct 7 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I am noticing more and more women that I see in my medical practice have completely shaved off all of their pubic hair. I find this very arousing and interesting. However, I have never been brave enough to ask why women shave. I have dropped some hints to my wife but she does not seem interested. She is very concerned about...

Women and anal pleasure

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I recently met my latest girlfriend, and she is a very experienced lover. She says she is especially attracted to a female butt. We have had beautiful sex together, but she wants to explore anal sex with me. I thought only men were interested in anal sex. I must say that every time my lover touches my anus it is quite...

How to give a blow job (aka fellatio)

Published: May 12 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I’d like to give my male partner pleasure with my mouth, but I’m not sure what to do. Can you help? We’ve put together some suggestions for you, and I’m sure there are more ideas out there. If other people have tricks and techniques to share, send them to us, and we’ll add them to this answer. First and foremost: the...

I'm having lesbian fantasies

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I have been seriously involved with a man for the last eight years. During our love making, I sometimes talk about having sex with another woman to turn him on, but the truth is it really turns me on, too. I have never had an encounter with another woman, but it seems to be all I think about now. Should I act on this new...

Hesitant about cunnilingus

Published: Oct 7 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I’ve been slow at giving oral sex to women. Inhibitions? Taboos? I don’t know. I’m committed to pleasuring my lover that way. Any suggestions for helping me to overcome that? In addition to orally pleasuring my female partner, how do vibrators fit in? (pardon the pun)? Which do women find more pleasurable - good oral sex or...