Sex Tips, Tricks & Techniques

My partner is too long.

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I love my partner dearly, but his penis is too long and intercourse is actually pretty painful at times due to the depth of penetration. Is there something we can do that would keep him from penetrating me so deeply? This is a common question and causes a lot of distress between men and women when it happens. There’s...

Why don't you carry handcuffs?

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, My partner and I are looking to live out a naughty police officer fantasy, but we can’t seem to find any metal handcuffs on your website. You carry a lot of different restraints, but why no handcuffs? There are a few reasons why we don’t stock handcuffs or encourage their use. The main reason being SAFETY, SAFETY, SAFETY!...

Should I let my wife spank me?

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I’ve been married for 13 years. My wife and I always argue about everything, and the last time we argued she said she was going to spank me. I thought she was joking, but it seams she is serious about it. She showed me a site on the net called "disciplinarily wife’s club". I looked at it and and laughed and laughed - it was...

What do I do with Warming Gels?

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I see these gels that warm when you rub them into the skin and then get warmer when you blow on them. But you warn us not to use them on the vulva or in the vagina, so what do I do with them? These warming gels are intended to help you focus on more whole-body sensations. You can rub the gel into a specific area and it...

Taking care of hosiery

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, Can I do anything to keep my favorite hosiery in good shape? Yes, actually, there are things you can do to keep your hosiery perky. Always hand-wash hosiery in a smooth sink, with warm water and just a touch of clothes detergent liquid. Swish it in the sink, then rinse with cold water. Do not use Woolite to clean your...

Dog Fantasies

Published: Oct 7 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, When I was 10-12 years old, something strange happened to me. My mom worked nights so I was in my house by myself. I took a shower and walked in to my bedroom nude. I sat Indian-style on the floor to go through my clothes to find something to wear to school the next day. As I was sitting there my dog comes in my room and...

Is it okay to have sex in water?

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, Is it possible to have sex in a pool? A few people have told me that you can get "stuck" from the suction from being under water. Is this true? Is underwater sex safe? It is possible, and safe, to have sex under water. There is not enough of a vacuum created to actually cause suction that would get the two of you stuck...

How long do vibrators last?

Published: Oct 21 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, How long can I expect my vibrator to last? Vibrators will last anywhere from several months to several years, depending on how they are made, how much you use yours, how many delicate or complicated parts it has, and how you care for it. We do like to point out that the cost of a vibrator is not much greater than the cost...