Good Resources about Oral Sex, Cunnilingus & Fellatio

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Dear Sex Counselor,

Hi! I love to perform cunnilingus and enjoy all the variety encountered in the female anatomy while doing so. Trouble is, I don’t get to practice it often enough and need refreshers and updated information to keep my skills current. My question is, can you recommend any good books on the subject, and do you know any new techniques or variances that I can practice?

Dear Sex Counselor,

I really enjoy oral sex with my male partner, but I’d like to get better at it. Any ideas?


There are several good resources to help you keep "current" on your oral skills.

First, try the beautiful book by Kenneth Stubbs Kiss of Desire. In there, you’ll find lots of tips and techniques for ways to use your mouth and things to enhance your oral pleasure experience. Other practical books include The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio and The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus.

A bit more serious instruction can be found in the DVD The Better Sex Guide to Great Oral Sex or the DVD Better Oral Sex Techniques. These are good guides for beginners and those seeking to improve their oral lovemaking abilities in a bit more straightforward manner.

If you want your choice of either instruction or erotic scenarios featuring oral sex in all its variations, choose the Expert Guide to Cunnilingus and/or the Expert Guide to Fellatio. These movies feature adult film stars who demonstrate the lessons, and allow you to choose to watch the films as instructional or just fun. They are adventurous choices, and you can expect that the participants will look like typical beautiful adult stars.

Since willingness is the most important factor, you’re already most of the way there. Have fun learning and practicing!

The Sex Counselor