Sex Tips, Tricks & Techniques

How to do Kegels

Published: Mar 21 2016
Pelvic floor exercise tools act as biofeedback tools and help you know if and when you are contracting your pelvic floow muscles correctly. Most of them sit very close to the muscles you’re going to be contracting (your pelvic floor muscles), and when you lift those muscles you can feel the tool "lift" up inside you. This lets you know you’re...

The Myth of the Magic Button: The G, A, & U "Spots" Explained

Published: Aug 5 2014
Many of us have seen bright headlines in magazines that claim to teach you how to find a magical "spot" on you or your partner's body that will give them "mind-blowing" orgasms like they've never had before. While it's true that each individual often has many paths to orgasm and that, depending on the path used, orgasms can feel different from...

Micropenis

Published: Aug 8 2012
A close friend of mine has been dating a wonderful guy for a few months.  She likes him and they get along well everywhere except in bed.  He has a very small penis - as in micropenis small - and she both doesn't know how to talk to him about it and doesn't know what to do even if she could.  She's asked my help in finding...

Seniors & BDSM

Published: Aug 27 2010
Dear Sex Counselor: I enjoy sensation play and dominance/submission games with my partner, but sometimes we wonder whether this will be safe, or if we'll even be interested, when we're in the later part of our lives. What do you think? Kinkster ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------...

Othercourse

Published: Feb 9 2011
 Download a free PDF version of this brochure   Othercourse--what is it?   Othercourse is creative sex play that is not limited to, or focused on intercourse. It can include any sexual activities you and your partner enjoy, and can lead to anything you both agree to. It can be the first course, the last course, the main course...

How to clean your toys

Published: Mar 20 2014
Dear AWT Pleasure Specialists, What’s the best way to keep my toys clean? I’ve seen "toy cleaner" advertised - do I need to buy any special products to keep my toys clean? With good care and reasonable use, your toys should last for quite a while. To protect yourself and those you love, consider the following cleaning suggestions. Plastic...

Anal Sex Guidelines

Published: Oct 14 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, My partner and I want to explore anal sex, but we have a bunch of questions for you ... Ok, then let’s go question by question: Do we always need an enema before anal sex? No, that’s a personal decision, and there are health reasons NOT to do that. Enemas can damage the surface skin of the rectum.  Some people feel...

New partner is too wide & too long!

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, i just found out my new lover is rather... frighteningly endowed. and most of my past lovers have mistaken me for a virgin. he’s patient and sweet, so he doesn’t mind waiting while i overcome fears, or trying other interesting things in the meantime. i enjoy performing oral sex and both vaginal and anal penetration......