A close friend of mine has been dating a wonderful guy for a few months. She likes him and they get along well everywhere except in bed. He has a very small penis - as in micropenis small - and she both doesn't know how to talk to him about it and doesn't know what to do even if she could. She's asked my help in finding...
My partner and I attempted anal sex recently with lots of lube (or at least we thought so) and it was so painful, he wasn't able to get in. Is this a physical problem? We used Liquid Silk but maybe need a different lube? I was sexually abused as a child (although not anally that I know of) but have had years of therapy and thought I had...
Dear Sex Counselor:
I enjoy sensation play and dominance/submission games with my partner, but sometimes we wonder whether this will be safe, or if we'll even be interested, when we're in the later part of our lives. What do you think?
Kinkster
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I am 61 years old and still sexually active with my partner who has some back problems. During intercourse he is usually on top but occasionally wants me to be on top. I try but it seems like it's not a comfortable fit and I don't have the flexibility in my spine. So that only lasts about a minute. I of course want to give him...
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Othercourse--what is it?
Othercourse is creative sex play that is not limited to, or focused on intercourse. It can include any sexual activities you and your partner enjoy, and can lead to anything you both agree to. It can be the first course, the last course, the main course...
Dear AWT Pleasure Specialists,
What’s the best way to keep my toys clean? I’ve seen "toy cleaner" advertised - do I need to buy any special products to keep my toys clean?
With good care and reasonable use, your toys should last for quite a while. To protect yourself and those you love, consider the following cleaning suggestions.
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Dear Sex Counselor,
My partner and I want to explore anal sex, but we have a bunch of questions for you ...
Ok, then let’s go question by question:
Do we always need an enema before anal sex?
No, that’s a personal decision, and there are health reasons NOT to do that. Enemas can damage the surface skin of the rectum. Some people feel...
Dear Sex Counselor,
i just found out my new lover is rather... frighteningly endowed. and most of my past lovers have mistaken me for a virgin. he’s patient and sweet, so he doesn’t mind waiting while i overcome fears, or trying other interesting things in the meantime.
i enjoy performing oral sex and both vaginal and anal penetration......
Dear Sex Counselor,
I love my partner dearly, but his penis is too long and intercourse is actually pretty painful at times due to the depth of penetration. Is there something we can do that would keep him from penetrating me so deeply?
This is a common question and causes a lot of distress between men and women when it happens. There’s...
Dear Sex Counselor,
I was recently diagnosed with vaginismus, which makes for painful or outright impossible vaginal penetration. My health care provider and I are currently working on a plan to help me overcome this issue. My partner is being very supportive about everything and we are trying to maintain intimacy through foreplay, but I feel...
