Relationship Advice

If I'm bisexual, does that mean that I'm non-monogamous too?

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I think I’m bisexual, but I am not sure. I am attracted to men and women, I know that; but I only want one lover at a time. Is it possible to be bisexual and monogamous? My friend says that if you are bisexual, it means you are lovers with both men and women at the same time. That doesn’t seem right. Bisexuality and...

Boundaries and parental behavior

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I need to know whether this is appropriate behavior. When I was in third grade my dad did something that seems inappropriate to me, but maybe it’s not. One time when I was home alone with my dad he asked me if I had ever seen a man’s penis before. I said I hadn’t, and then he asked me if I would like to see...

Post-affair tension

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, Recently, my husband had an indiscretion with a girl he knows and has known for several months. He did not go all the way with her, but they did make out and do some heavy petting while they were both naked. He says he was really drunk and doesn’t even remember everything. He also says that he loves me and has no feelings...

What is considered to be an affair?

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I need input - feel very ignorant. I have been married for more than ten years. I have kids and what I think is a wonderful husband. I have girlfriends from work, and we have every Wednesday as Girls Night Out. We go to a local inn for a karaoke sing along. Recently, an extremely handsome guy from work came out with us. He...