Dear Sex Counselor:
How do I get over my man looking at porn when he masturbates? It makes me feel insignificant.
Dear Feeling Insignificant,
Thank you for your question.
I have a couple of questions for you to consider as you think about your partner's relationship to porn. Does he masturbate instead of having sex with you? Or is it...
Dear Sex Counselor, I am married for 9 years with a little one. My husband is never home and we have drifted apart emotionally and physically. Actually our sex life was never that good. I have gotten myself in a relationship with a very good friend. He will not tell me how he feels about me because he doesn’t want to be a scapegoat...
Dear Sex Counselor,
My partner and I are cruising through mid-life, and want to maintain a healthy sex life far into old age. How can we best take care of our bodies and our relationship so we can enjoy intimacy as we get older?
We all go through changes as our bodies age -- some good and some more challenging. Luckily, there are plenty of...
Dear Sex Counselor,
I work with breast cancer patients and have some questions regarding cancer and sexuality/relationships. Can you tell me a bit about how breast cancer affects a long term relationship? How to discuss feelings about the diagnosis? What if she’s worried her partner will be turned off? What if s/he is turned off, or afraid to...
Dear Sex Counselor, I have been married for 18 years, and I recently found some pictures in my husband’s e-mail of "She-Males". When I questioned him, I asked him if he was gay and he said NO. When I asked if he liked to wear women’s clothing, he said "maybe - I don’t know". He is in the Navy, so this was...
Dear Sex Counselor, My girlfriend and I were getting it on good. I was attempting to kiss the nape of her neck and ear lobe. She got ticklish and giggled. I stroked her inner thigh (lightly). Goose bumps appeared on her thighs and legs - and, much to my annoyance, she giggled again! A few minutes before, she had warmed to my touch, and was...
Dear Sex Counselor,
How on earth do I raise the libido of my partner? I would like to make love three times a week, but we do it once a month. We have been together for three years, and we love each other very much. The frequency was a bit more in the beginning, but it has been like this for two years now. Something has got to give. I can only ...
Dear Sex Counselor,
I feel like my sex drive is too high. My girlfriend and I have been together for 18 months, and everything is okay apart from this problem. I want sex every day and get turned on too easily. She only wants it once or twice a week. My constant need is acting as a big turn-off for her, and it drives me crazy. Is there any way...
Dear Sex Counselor, Is honesty always the best policy? I have found myself in a relationship situation that I’m not sure what to do with. I have been dating a woman for approximately four months, and we get along great. We are friends, which I think is important. We also have an understanding that we are able to date other people. Recently...
Dear Sex Counselor, My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and she still lives with her ex even though they have been broken up for over a year! My girlfriend allows her ex to control every aspect of her life. Often I feel like I’m in second place. I know my girlfriend loves me and I love her, but my heart breaks each...
