How to Choose...

How to choose a Kegel exercise tool

Published: Aug 27 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I want to start doing Kegel exercises, and I see you have several Kegel exercise "tools" available on your site. How do I choose the one that’s best for me? First, congratulations on starting to do your Kegels! Strong pelvic floor muscles have lots of benefits, from better orgasms to a decreased risk of incontinence. If...

How to choose a book about bondage

Published: Aug 6 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I’m curious about bondage, and I heard that you should read about it before you start doing it. With all the bondage books out there, how do I pick the one that will be best for me? All of the bondage books we carry will give you enough information to begin your exploration of bondage. However, they each have their own...

How to choose restraints (bondage)

Published: Oct 14 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, My partner wants to see what it’s like to be tied up during sex. I’m open to the idea, but I’m kind of nervous and I need some more information first! I don’t know anything about tying knots, and I’m not really into that whole domination thing...how can I make this work for me and my partner? Using restraint during sex...

How to choose my first vibrator

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I’ve finally worked up the courage to buy myself a vibrator. I’ve never used one before, and I’m feeling overwhelmed by all the choices. Can you give me any guidelines? I want my first vibrator to be one that I’ll like. Congratulations on buying your first vibrator! I understand how overwhelming it can be to look at all...

Men's Sex Toys

Published: Oct 21 2008
Download a free PDF version of this brochure Dear Sex Counselor, I am interested in getting a sex toy specifically designed for a man, but I don’t know where to begin. What are my choices? There are several different types of sex toys made specifically for men. At A Woman’s Touch, you’ll find men’s toys that fit into four broad categories:...

How to choose a massage oil or cream

Published: Oct 8 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, How do I know which massage oils or creams are best for me? Thinking of a nice massage? A nice warm room, comfy sheets and towels, dim lights, soothing music, a bowl of warm water to heat your massage oil, and you’re ready for your massage. But do you ever feel overwhelmed when trying to select just the right product...

How to choose a game

Published: Oct 7 2008
Dear Sex Counselor, I see a lot of different games to play with my partner, but I can’t seem to choose. Can you help? If you want to start an intimate conversation with your partner, but don't exactly know how to start.  Having a game handy like the, Intimate 4Play game, might be just what you need to get you talking, sharing, laughing...

How to choose a harness

Published: Oct 14 2008
Download a free PDF version of this brochure Dear Sex Counselor, I’ve seen harnesses on your website. What are they, and how are they used? How can I choose one that’s right for me? Harnesses are used to hold a dildo against the wearer’s body. Together, a harness and dildo (a.k.a. “strap-on”) can be worn by a woman or man to penetrate a...

How to choose a dildo

Published: Oct 14 2008
Download a free PDF version of this brochure Dear Sex Counselor, I’m a little curious about dildos. Why would someone want to use one? How can I choose one that’s the right shape and size for me? Dildos are the oldest sex toys known to humans, with the earliest on record dating back to 5000 BC. Dildos are available in many shapes and sizes...